He's Just Not That Into You

He's Just Not That Into You by Greg Behrendt, Liz Tucillo
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He's Just Not That Into You

The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

A brilliantly witty and entertaining guide to interpreting men from a writer and a consultant of Sex and the City, which has become a publishing sensation in the US. A no-holds-barred decoder of male behaviour, this book isn't just about eliminating the bad apples ? it's also about holding onto the good ones.

This hilarious, playful, but honest explanation of male behaviour from a writer and a consultant of Sex and the City, is designed to stop women wasting their time chasing after men who aren't into them, and help them to move on and find men who really are. The line, 'He's just not that into you', was developed out of a conversation between Greg Behrendt and his fellow female SATC writers when they asked his advice one day. It became an episode which struck a powerful chord with viewers. The wisdom of the book can be summed up by the following: men don't want to tell women when they're not interested and women don't want to hear it anyway. Upfront and forthright, the book explains why the man you're waiting for might not be worth the wait or all your excuses. The book's positive message: It happens to the most beautiful, funny, interesting and intelligent women ? it just means that it's time to say 'Next!'

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He's Just Not That Into You

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    He's Just Not That Into You

  • Author:Greg Behrendt, Liz Tucillo
  • ISBN:7198213
  • ISBN-13:9780007198214, 978-0007198214
  • Binding: Paperback
  • Publishing Date: -
  • Publisher: Harper Collins
  • Number of Pages: - pages
  • Language: English
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He's Just Not That Into You

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if you're looking at this title he probably isn't into you
this is common sense, a good insight to the workings of the male mind (some of them anyway) and while i wouldn't use this as a benchmark it is certainly useful for pointing out when we are being strung a line. and it makes the point: if he isn't phoning you, he isn't in to you. find someone who is.

the only thing to bear in mind is that if we aren't kicking these kind of men out of our lives there is probably some reason (low self-esteem for example) and for that you'll need help from other sources.

otherwise, read it and learn!

Hilarious!
Much better than the film - this book is hilarious! The film is actually nothing to do with the book it seems.

You really need to read the whole book in order to get the jokes..
He is just not into you
This book gives you an insight into the way a man thinks and behaves towards relationships. If you want to find out if he is the man for you then this is a must read.
He was ino me...but just not that into me!
Started seeing a guy in February (he had asked me out!)

Brought this book in March (a complete impulse buy at the airport!)

Stopped seeing aforementioned guy in June!

Why? Thanks to this brilliant book, I was quickly able to identify that although this guy was into me...he was just NOT that into me - and I decided to waste no more of my time!!

FOR EVERY FEMALE WHO READS THESE REVIEWS, PLEASE, PLEASE READ THIS BOOK!!

You are worth waiting for someone who is REALLY into you xxx
great perspective
Men and women do think differently. It's nice to hear things from the perspective of a man for a change. If women knew more about how men think, they would spend less time crying over men they foolishly think are good for them. If Sarah in the novel Singleholic had read this book, it might have spared her some heartache.
This is a must have for every dateing female!
I bought this book for my daughter who is trying to find Mr. Right..it really opened her eyes..it made her relize what jerks guys can be and it taught her don't just settle... the right one is out there just waiting to find her
This book should be read by any female that is dating from 16 to 60 or more... both my girls (16 and 23) have learned from this book "YOU WILL KNOW IF HE IS REALLY INTO YOU".........
No.
Being a single, somewhat shy gal in her mid 20s, I picked up this book hoping I could get some helpful pointers. How will I know if a guy is into me? How can I accentuate my best qualities? If I really like a guy, how can I pursue him? What are some red flags I should be watching out for?

After reading this book, I was not enlightened. To summarize -- aside from VERY rare exceptions, if a man is into you, he will do everything short of killing his own mother to be with you. If not, then he's not that into you. He's not into you if he doesn't contact you within a specified time frame. If he's sleeping with someone else. If he's already married. If he's abusing you. If he's making excuses not to see you. Ladies, the book says, if you find yourselves in these situations, cut your losses and move on. At best, this is just common sense that we women don't need an entire book to spell out, but that the authors patronizingly feel we do. We're WOMEN, we're not toddlers. If he's been ignoring you for months and not returning your calls, he's not into you.

The book also glosses over some potentially serious issues. He won't be that into you if he's married, and you deserve better than to not have his full attention, so don't go for a married guy. Um, how about... don't go for a married guy because he's MARRIED and it's WRONG to be a homewrecker? He's not that into you if he's beating you up, so just pack your bags and get out. Right, because the abuser/victim relationship is that simple. Instead of saying what everyone knows (leave the abusive relationship), the book should have provided at least SOME resources for any victims stuck in this unfortunate cycle.

But overall, I felt this book was making sweeping generalizations. It CLAIMS it's for everyone, but in the world of the book, all men are assertive, bar-savvy types who won't hesitate to chat up a girl, and all girls are clingy, desperate types who have no problem leaving 300 messages on the guy's cell. I happen to know that I'm someone who would say, "No, he's probably not into me," before saying, "He TOTALLY is obsessed with me." And I know men who are sweet and full of personality, but who are just a bit shy on the whole asking out front. We're not cut from the same cloth, but this book treats relationships and people like we are.

What I disliked most was the overall message I got at the end. We women are supposed to flaunt our wares until a guy approaches us (yes, this book's against the woman asking the guy out) and then date him until we find out he's not into us. Then we should bravely suck up our rejection and start the cycle over again. And what about finding that special someone? "You're a great gal. He'll come along eventually, don't worry." I'm paraphrasing, but astonishingly, that's basically all that the book says about looking for that quality man. Aside from my power to dump, I was given absolutely NO proactive advice on how to encounter/approach/ask out a guy (oh wait, right, women are not supposed to ask men out). And while the book goes into agonizing detail about all the ways men can be jerks (it has that boys will be boys, c'est la vie attitude about this kind of behavior), it really doesn't say anything about what the good qualities are that we gals should be paying attention to. I was left feeling, wow. The world is full of slimy dudes. Better take the first one who's into me and who's not a complete tool.

The book claims to empower women, but everything about it is just so counter-intuitive and patronizing. It forced me to think about what was missing, so ironically, I did come out of it with a better understanding of finding Mr. Right. (Hence the 2 stars.) Ladies, we should have standards when choosing a guy to date, and we should avoid getting sucked into relationships with men who don't respect us. And I believe if someone is actually worth pursuing, we should go ahead and do it. If it turns out he's really not that into us, then yes, don't be a creepy obsessed stalker about it. Move on.
Wonderful book, full of laughs and truths.
Anybody who's ever put up with or made excuses for your man needs to read this book. It is truthful and empowering. In fact, I believe that they need to write a book for teen girls as well. This one has adult humor in it and although the message is good I would not recommend for young girls.
Every woman's must-read
Women are fools, especially when it comes to relationships. That's why we need a truth teller like greg
He's Just Not that into You
Definitely a must-read for singles ladies in the dating world or ladies who doubt their relationships! Easy reading, but definitely excellent advice. I guarantee you find yourself in the book somewhere. And after reading, you will no longer settle.
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